I am trying to avoid court at all costs given previous experiences. However, it's looking like it could be on the horizon, unless Child Services pull something miraculous out of the bag.
What I don't want to happen is come out of court with my contact reinstated and that's it. Because, that will be pointless. My 11yo daughter will still refuse to see me and the alienation will continue.
So, I am looking for as many suggestions as I can get to pass on to my solicitor for her to try and get sorted at court. I.e. prescribed family therapy for daughter and I, pyschological assessments for daughter and mum for attachment issues, family communication app, etc. If I go to court, given my daughter's age, this could be the last go at it. I already feel like I've lost her so I want to leave no stone unturned and there needs to be some serious things in place to repair our relationship and prevent her mum from continuing such behaviour.
My situation in brief: PA going on since daughter's birth, various periods of no contact, latest period has been over five months now, reason for no contact during this latest period is because I sent my daughter to school (she went happily), she wasn't going to school for her mum, her mum decided I couldn't see her anymore as a result, mum deregistered her from school and is home schooling, now isolated and away from me, mum has been feeding more poison into our daughter's mind, making me out to be a bully, etc, children's services are carrying out an assessment but not holding my hopes up, had systemic family therapy in place for daughter and I for a year or so, but daughter has refused to attend for the last four months, been blocked on my daughter's phone for a couple of months now, having to post cards instead.
Thanks in advance.