Hello, I have suffered the last 8 years of my life- going through a brutal separation, from a narcissist. She is already remarried- less than a month of divorce being finalized. We share a son. She used her family ties in the court to strip me of MY FAMILYS INHERITED HOME. Now she is remarried and is trying to force my son to call this other man daddy. She has also encouraged this man to try to intimidate me, humiliate me, and try to force me out of my sons life. He loves to say things to me LIke he's MY SON. It just goes on and on. I am FINALLY in a position where I can PAY to have it all stopped
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I can visualize your pain. Dark thoughts have come to my mind often. It does not help in the long run. I am 4 years down a similar path and the divorce is not yet finalized. I never thought I could get through the separation from my children. When the child(ren) has(have) a crazy parent, it is in their best interests that you be available for them once they realize that they need a stable parent. It may take years. It would be helpful for you to be a "sleeper" parent where you are emotionally and financially stable for that day when you need to step in. Get on with your life and celebrate the peace of mind that you have from getting detached from the crazy spouse. Do not act on dark thoughts, but be aware that it is a natural thought that comes to mind when one is over stressed and feels helpless about the situation. Peace and strength brother!!!