i think the only way in is getting private time with kid through courts. in private time let them talk.. kids may show anger on you.. but be patient.. its a long battle to win.. its frustrating.. but kid may(will) understand you one day..
do give small memory gifts/ some small eatables..
don't give any favorite toys or dolls.. if the kid shows attachment towards the gift you gave.. the other parent may use it as a tool to gaslight the kid, and it will be used as a weapon against you.. kid may end up hating you more.
don't cry in front of the kid.. but make sure to convey the message that u miss the kid..
maintain your self esteem.. give respect.. talk respectfully with the kid..
in a long run kid will respect you too.. and build a good image about you .
be clean, neatly dressed.. give a good impression.
Please give us ideas My husband hasn’t had an relationship with his daughter for the last three years he’s took over there frequently just for her to slam the door in his face and say all sorts of mean things because of what the mom has said to her about him that wasn’t true and now this year my husband has had enough and he’s just going back-and-forth to court to try to get reunification therapy. It’s sad because his daughter hates him even though he didn’t do anything and they used to be so close
Reunification therapy is for absent parents and is entirely inappropriate and counter productive for alienation.
It's also the definition insanity to do the same thing, expecting a different result from the system that created the problem.
Soz I bring only negatives, my heart is with your man, I wish I knew a workable solution other than to take good care of oneself so not a wreck for if ever they escape the cult like situation.
@juliaarmstrong6305 the courts just seem to want to drag it on without making a decision...there is no reason why my partner should not see her daughter
Father of my child does not let me to see my own 2 little children and on porpouse destroy my relationship with them?
Father of my child does not let me to see my own 2 little children and on porpouse destroy my relationship with them?
i think the only way in is getting private time with kid through courts. in private time let them talk.. kids may show anger on you.. but be patient.. its a long battle to win.. its frustrating.. but kid may(will) understand you one day..
do give small memory gifts/ some small eatables..
don't give any favorite toys or dolls.. if the kid shows attachment towards the gift you gave.. the other parent may use it as a tool to gaslight the kid, and it will be used as a weapon against you.. kid may end up hating you more.
don't cry in front of the kid.. but make sure to convey the message that u miss the kid..
maintain your self esteem.. give respect.. talk respectfully with the kid..
in a long run kid will respect you too.. and build a good image about you .
be clean, neatly dressed.. give a good impression.
I'm trying to make a youtube video soon..
have a chat.. send your replies too..
Please give us ideas My husband hasn’t had an relationship with his daughter for the last three years he’s took over there frequently just for her to slam the door in his face and say all sorts of mean things because of what the mom has said to her about him that wasn’t true and now this year my husband has had enough and he’s just going back-and-forth to court to try to get reunification therapy. It’s sad because his daughter hates him even though he didn’t do anything and they used to be so close
We need advice too...my partner hasn't seen her 11 yr old daughter in over two years because her ex refuses to allow her to see/ speak to
I need to know too my daughter don't speak to me at all .