So me and ex have 2 children, was bringing up a 3rd a few months ago, til i found out he wasn't mine!
Ex tells me they are only co-parenting, but I've seen some very upsetting messages from my 11 year old daughter to my ex,
My daughter has sleep and other issues already, reading this she has walked in at least 3 times, on top of this my 5 year old daughter has regularly seen him in his pants
I've added 2 pictures, what can I do? My daughter's head is clearly a mess, but anyway I intervene it feels like it will makes things worse
My life is already messed up as we split and the 3rd child wasn't mine, but I have a duty to my 2 daughters, I do t do child maintenance as I don't work, but I regularly buy food shopping, household bits and also top up her gas and electric!
If he is regularly there, should I stop all the help and just pay child maintenance,