PA from ex husband who is MET Police officer.

I’ve been going through DA thrgh ex husband for last few year- misogynistic, coercive and controlling behaviour, financial abuse.

He took our 16yr son to live with him in July 2020, no discussion about it. Told me by text after it happene, said it was temp

i then sent my 13yr son to go too as I thought it was just for the holiday and I didn’t want them to be split up either

i then had a complete mental breakdown as he’d bought me to my knee.

by Septembe, neither boys came back and stopped all contact with me.

he’s never kept me updated despite the solicitors telling him to.

cut me off from college and school update, wouldnt send photos

then in Jan this yea, 15yr old son diagnosed with cance, he disn’t tell me, someone else di.d

wouldnt let me see my son in hospital or be involved in any treatmen.

called the police on me twice for harassment when I went to the hospita.

hospital we’re happy for me to be there and sent them away.

tells everyone the new girlfriend is his step mom and she could be there but I couldn’.

he’s now moved in with her.

NO court oEder in place but he convincea everyone I’m bat shit crazy and an alcoholi!

IM NOT!

tried to report him to the MET BUT THEY SAY NEVER RECEIVED COMPLAINTS or when I complained about evidence of corruption too, told me I’m just someone who is bitter and doing it because I’m going through divorce.

any help on where or what do next, I’m at my wits end and want him to be stopped and desp need to see my kid.