Hello … I haven’t been on this forum before but I see some common ground already, it’s not a place I ever thought I’d be but then I’m guessing neither did you! Both of my children are now alienated from me by their Father and, I have been more recently accused of child abuse. Unfounded allegations are exactly that but what I find astounding is why do social services not listen? The voice of the child is all I am hearing at the moment but when children have been psychologically abused what else would they say? Yes my Father hates my Mum so I must hate her too? SS’s didn’t bother challenging our Son and ignored an opportunity to have him tell them what he heard, saw and witnessed (domestic abuse). So despite being the main carer for both since birth I am now rejected. My Son in particular has sworn at me, physically abused me and still it’s my fault. In their Father’s care their welfare is questionable and our Son’s weight has ballooned. He’s in trouble at school and has been in detention for missing homework assignments, he didn’t have this problem when he was staying with me. Their Father hates me so much he has destroyed our relationships. I have moved onto a loving relationship but even that he tried to ruin it by using our Son to hate my partner. I was recently blackmailed into leaving him in the care of his Father with the threat of child abuse allegations in court (again one sided accusations). I am about to enter the fight of my life to finally seek justice … wish me luck.
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Parental Alienation (because that’s what it is)
Parental Alienation (because that’s what it is)
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I wish you much courage and hope you have someone to support you. Your new partner will go through this hellish process with you - and they may not want to. The Court system is a minefield and they are loathe to question a child who incorrectly claims abuse from the alienated parent. CAFCASS dislike proving alienation as it is time consuming and requires a psychological understanding of all issues - they are not qualified to do this. I feel deeply for you. I lost my daughter in a malicious and protracted campaign by my ex. Sadly the court system is not equipped to see the bereavement and deep fractures caused by Alienation. My prayers go out for you.