So...
It's been a year since I heard it seen from my children due to my ex wifes spitefulness.She has told people around her she has taken a court order baning me from contact on request from the police and court nothing exists.. I emailed her for confirmation and within hours I had a call from the police telling me to stop contacting her or I'll be done for harrasment... I'm loosing my mind over this is there anything I can do?