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Are Barring Orders on the Rise in Family Courts?
Family courts have seen a noticeable increase in the use of barring orders in recent years. These orders, which restrict or prohibit contact between a parent and child, are often a last resort in complex family disputes. The rise in barring orders is linked to growing pressures on the court system, including limited resources and judge fatigue caused by unresolved family contact issues. This article explores the reasons behind this trend, supported by available data and real-

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Nov 12, 20256 min read


The Psychological and Neurological Impacts of Parental Alienation.
Parental alienation is a complex and painful experience that affects many families worldwide. It occurs when one parent manipulates a child to reject or distance themselves from the other parent, often during or after a separation or divorce. This behaviour can cause deep emotional wounds and lasting damage to the child’s mental health and brain development. Recent research sheds new light on how parental alienation affects the brain and psychological well-being, offering ins

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Nov 11, 20256 min read


How to Work With (and Around) Biased Professionals in Family Court.
Family court cases can be emotionally charged and complex. When bias enters the picture, it can feel overwhelming and unfair. Whether you are dealing with a Guardian ad Litem (GAL), CAFCASS officers, social services, or judges, recognising and managing bias is crucial to protect your interests and those of your children. This article offers practical strategies to work with and around potential bias in family court. It aims to empower you with clear steps and realistic approa

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Nov 10, 20256 min read


Denying Alienating Parents Plausible Deniability.
Parental alienation is a deeply troubling issue that affects millions of families worldwide. It occurs when one parent manipulates a child to reject or distance themselves from the other parent without legitimate justification. This manipulation often leaves the alienated parent struggling to maintain a relationship with their child. A significant challenge in addressing parental alienation is the concept of plausible deniability. This allows alienating parents to deny their

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Nov 9, 20256 min read


Are you Suffering from Battle Fatigue?
Parental alienation is a painful reality for many parents who find themselves cut off from their children due to the actions of the other parent. The fight to maintain or regain a relationship with one’s child often takes place in family court, a setting that can be emotionally and mentally exhausting. This ongoing struggle can lead to what is known as battle fatigue , a state of chronic stress and emotional depletion. Understanding battle fatigue in the context of parental a

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Nov 8, 20256 min read


How Slow Family Courts Steal Time from Parents and Children.
Every year, over 100,000 children in the UK face prolonged waits in family courts. Cases that should take around 26 weeks often stretch to nearly a year or more. Some children wait two years or longer for decisions that affect their futures. For 35% of alienated parents, this means not seeing their children for over five years. These numbers reveal more than just statistics—they show the vast amounts of time lost, time that children and parents can never get back. This articl

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Nov 7, 20255 min read


Why do Domestic Violence Groups Lie About Parental Alienation?
Parental alienation is a vital issue that often emerges during custody disputes and discussions about domestic violence. It occurs when one parent manipulates a child to reject the other parent, which can lead to serious emotional and psychological harm. Alarmingly, some domestic violence (DV) advocacy groups are dismissing the concept of parental alienation. They try to frame it as a tactic used by abusive parents to escape responsibility. As a result, we have been asked the

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Nov 5, 20256 min read


Are the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) Causing Parents to Die?
The Child Maintenance Service (CMS) plays a vital role in the financial stability of families. Its intention is to ensure children receive the necessary support from non-custodial parents. However, many families face hardships due to CMS practices, which are often seen as detrimental to parents' mental health. This article explores how CMS practices can worsen the emotional and financial struggles of parents, the alarming statistics linking CMS involvement to suicide rates, a

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Nov 4, 20255 min read


What are the Five Stages of Grief for Alienated Parents?
Parental alienation is an incredibly difficult experience that can leave deep emotional wounds for both parents and children. When a child is manipulated into rejecting one parent, the affected parent often experiences a profound sense of loss. This loss parallels the stages of grief, a concept first introduced by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. By understanding these stages, alienated parents can better navigate their emotional struggles and find a path toward healing. In this articl

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Nov 3, 20256 min read


Is Parental Alienation Linked to Depopulation?
Parental alienation and the failures of family courts are increasingly recognised as significant issues impacting families worldwide. These problems not only affect those directly involved but also have broader societal implications. They contribute to the troubling trend of depopulation. As potential parents observe the struggles and injustices faced in the family court system, many are discouraged from having children altogether. This article explores the relationship betwe

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Nov 2, 20256 min read


The Importance of Shielding Children from Adult Conflict.
In today’s fast-paced world, the innocence of childhood faces threats from various adult conflicts. Situations like divorce or family disputes often leave children caught in the middle. They may not understand what’s happening, and this can be a source of confusion and stress for them. In this article, we will explore the importance of shielding children from adult matters, the need to preserve their innocence, the dangers of parental alienation, and the vital roles both pare

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Nov 1, 20256 min read


Understanding Undue Influence in Parental Alienation Cases.
Parental alienation is a challenging issue many families face during custody disputes or divorce proceedings. It can dramatically affect the relationships between parents and children. A critical legal concept relevant to these cases is undue influence . Grasping what undue influence means and how it affects parental alienation can help individuals navigate these difficult situations with greater clarity and purpose. In this article, we will define undue influence, explore it

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Oct 31, 20256 min read


Why Parental Alienation is a Crime Waiting to Happen.
Parental alienation is a pressing issue that affects not just families but our society as a whole. It describes a situation where one parent manipulates a child to reject the other parent. This often leads to emotional and psychological damage. Disturbingly, parental alienation may create conditions for future criminal behaviour. This article will examine the link between parental alienation and crime, explore its legal implications, and highlight alarming statistics that und

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Oct 30, 20256 min read


The Impact of Malicious Communications on Parents and Children.
Parental alienation is a painful issue that many families face. It occurs when one parent influences a child’s feelings towards the other parent, often leading to deep emotional scars. A major factor that fuels parental alienation is malicious communications, such as false allegations made to organisations like CAFCASS (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) and children's services. This article will explore how these harmful communications contribute to pare

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Oct 29, 20256 min read


Are You Experiencing Anxious Attachment?
Parental alienation is a difficult issue that many families face, especially during divorce or separation. It creates pain and confusion for both parents and children. A key psychological idea to help navigate these issues is the concept of anxious attachment. In this article, we will delve into what anxious attachment means, how it shows up in parental alienation cases, and its effects on both the alienated parent and the child. Additionally, we will look at how anxious atta

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Oct 28, 20256 min read


What Type of Alienator Are You Dealing With?
Parental alienation is a heart-breaking issue impacting families across the world. It occurs when one parent tries to damage the child's relationship with the other parent, often during a divorce or separation. Recognising the different types of alienators can help families intervene effectively and provide the necessary support. In this article, we'll explore the three types of alienators: naïve, active, and obsessive. If you're an alienated parent and need help with your si

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Oct 27, 20256 min read


Why the Scariest Part of Halloween is the Heartache.
Halloween is a time of merriment, filled with colourful costumes and joyful celebrations. However, for many alienated parents and their children, this season can evoke profound sadness and longing. The decorations and festivities act as sharp reminders of shared moments that now feel out of reach. This article explores the emotional challenges that alienated parents encounter during Halloween, the impact on their children, and practical ways to navigate the sadness that can a

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Oct 26, 20256 min read


Why Punishing Parents for Breaking Court Orders is Crucial for Justice.
In the intricate world of family law, parental alienation stands out as a serious issue. When one parent actively tries to damage the relationship between the child and the other parent, it can lead to severe emotional and financial hardships. Family court orders are established to protect both parents' rights and children's well-being, yet many parents who disregard these orders face minimal consequences. This article discusses why it is vital to penalise parents who frequen

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Oct 25, 20256 min read


Am I Being Divorce Scraped?
Divorce is a complex and emotionally charged process that can have lasting effects on families, especially when children are involved. One term that has emerged in discussions about divorce is "divorce scraped." This term refers to the phenomenon where one parent attempts to undermine the relationship between the child and the other parent, often leading to parental alienation. In this article, we will explore what divorce scraped means, how it manifests in parental alienatio

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Oct 24, 20257 min read


Exploring Filicide and How to Improve Child Safety.
Filicide—the act of a parent killing their child—is a deeply disturbing issue that brings forth many questions about mental health, societal pressures, and the dynamics of parenting. In the UK, data reveals that mothers are responsible for a notable portion of filicide cases. In this article, we will examine the reasons behind this disparity, the consequences of imbalanced parenting roles, and how fostering equal parenting might help decrease the risk of maternal filicide. If

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Oct 23, 20256 min read
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