Parents navigating the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) often face emotional collapse, financial devastation, and isolation. These experiences are not isolated incidents but part of a growing pattern that demands attention. When harm becomes predictable, it signals systemic failure. This article explores how the CMS contributes to this crisis and what changes could help support families more effectively. If you're an alienated parent and need help with your situation then you

When parents separate, the well-being of their children depends on more than just legal decisions or financial arrangements. Two key systems in the UK; the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) and the Family Courts, both aim to support children after separation. Yet, these systems often work independently, creating gaps that can harm families and fail the children they intend to protect. Understanding how these systems operate and why their cooperation matters is essential for imp

Imagine staring at a child maintenance service (CMS) bill that could cover your rent, groceries, or even a small family holiday, yet knowing you have no access to your children. This gut-wrenching scenario is a reality for many alienated parents. They face an emotional paradox: they are expected to be financially responsible for their children but are emotionally erased from their lives. The system demands payment even when contact is blocked, delayed, or weaponised against t

The Child Maintenance Service (CMS) plays a vital role in the financial stability of families. Its intention is to ensure children receive the necessary support from non-custodial parents. However, many families face hardships due to CMS practices, which are often seen as detrimental to parents' mental health. This article explores how CMS practices can worsen the emotional and financial struggles of parents, the alarming statistics linking CMS involvement to suicide rates, a

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