Do I Need a Solicitor for Family Court?
- PAPA
- Jun 12
- 6 min read
Navigating family court can feel overwhelming, with many individuals finding themselves asking, "Do I really need a solicitor for family court?".

The landscape of family law seems complex, and understanding your rights can be challenging.
However, with the right information and preparation, self-representation is a viable and preferable option.
This article will clarify whether obtaining a solicitor for family court proceedings is necessary, discussing the potential implications and advantages of self-representation.
If you are a parent currently going through family court, it is highly recommended that you join PAPA Plus and make use of our courses and other resources, including PAPA AI.
If you require direct assistance with your case, you can also book a call with PAPA here..
The Nature of Family Court
Family court deals with civil matters, which is a key distinction.
In criminal cases, the state must provide legal representation to those who cannot afford it.
However, family disputes, such as child custody or divorce, do not come with that support.
Interestingly, it’s estimated that over 50% of individuals in family court represent themselves.
While having some guidance from PAPA is advisable, it isn't mandatory.
Our PAPA Plus members often report feeling empowered after completing our courses, using our PAPA Ai and having case calls with us.
The system rightfully allows self-representation, empowering individuals to advocate for their child's and their own needs effectively.
Why You Don't Need a Solicitor for Family Court
Many people feel they must hire a solicitor due to the complexity of court procedures.
However, a clear presentation of your case can be all it takes.
As long as you can explain your situation accurately and understand the materials involved, you can navigate the process successfully.
The process is actually far simpler than some people are lead to believe.
For instance, numerous online resources and local assistance programs provide guidance.
PAPA Plus is a vital resource for self litigants.
Studies show that self-represented litigants can manage their cases just as effectively as those with solicitors, provided they take the time to prepare.
There is in fact a lot of evidence to suggest that self-represented litigants often have better outcomes than those using representation.
Scare Tactics Employed by Solicitors
Some solicitors use scare tactics to convince individuals to hire them.
They may exaggerate how complicated the legal process can be or instil fear about potential consequences.
This can create anxiety around self-representation, making it seem like an unattainable option.
Given that over 95% of cases in the UK are decided based on recommendations from agencies such as CAFCASS, the influence of legal representation is limited at best.
It's actually more of a risk using representation given their limited influence and the financial implications.
The truth is, many have successfully represented themselves without falling into the traps posed by legal jargon.
If you use our courses, PAPA Ai and book case calls with us, there's no reason why you can't stay in control of your case.
The Potential Negative Impact of Solicitors’ Involvement
Sometimes, involving solicitors can complicate matters instead of simplifying them.
Legal representatives may focus on their own priorities, which are not always aligned with a client's interests.
For example, prolonged disputes can lead to repeated court appearances, often driven by the desire to bill clients for each step.
This can cause emotional stress and financial burden, while direct communication may have brought quicker resolutions.
Trust Issues with Family Law Solicitors
Trust is a critical issue with many family law solicitors.
Often, there’s a perception that the legal industry is motivated more by profit than people’s well-being.
Reports indicate that up to 70% of clients express frustration with how family law can entrench disputes, emphasising the need for transparent and client-focused practices.
PAPA members often report difficulties getting in touch with their representation and being overcharged for simple tasks such as relaying information from the court.
Many self-representing individuals find that their interests are often set aside in favour of procedural profits for their solicitors.
Benefits of Self-Representation in Family Court
Choosing to represent yourself can reclaim your sense of control.
With self-representation, you decide how to approach your case and which strategies to use.
Additionally, it can lead to faster resolutions.
Without the legal minutiae dragging things out, many individuals settle their issues more quickly.
The reality is that a solicitor sees a case as a job and a source of income, whereas self represented litigants care deeply about their children and the case, no one knows the case better or cares about it more so it's illogical to leave that responsibility to someone who is only financially invested.
Importantly, avoiding legal fees can save families substantial amounts—often averaging £200 to £300 per hour for solicitors.
This money can then rightfully be kept for the most important people in these disputes; the children.
Taking Money Away from the Family Law Industry
Opting for self-representation can challenge the financial pressures inherent in the family law industry.
When individuals step away from relying on solicitors, they disrupt a cycle that can lead to extended conflicts. This shift not only benefits families financially but also contributes to a legal culture that prioritizes constructive resolutions over protracted battles.
Many parents report wasting thousands of pounds on family court representation, often feeling frustrated and disillusioned with the legal process.
They express a sense of helplessness as they navigate the complexities of family law, only to find that despite their significant financial investment, they see little to no progress in their cases.
This situation leads many to wish they had chosen to represent themselves instead of relying on legal professionals.
The emotional toll of these proceedings, combined with the financial burden, can leave parents feeling overwhelmed and questioning the effectiveness of the legal system.
In hindsight, some parents believe that with the right resources and information, they could have advocated for their interests more effectively on their own.
Thousands of PAPA followers have said they'd wished they found our PAPA Plus resources before wasting so much money on so-called "professionals" that only made their situation worse.
By encouraging people to take charge of their situations, we can help push the system towards more equitable outcomes for everyone involved.
The Role of PAPA in Family Court Support
For those feeling daunted by the idea of self-representation, organisations like PAPA (People Against Parental Alienation) can be incredibly supportive.
PAPA offers guidance, resources, and a community of individuals facing similar challenges.
With materials aimed at empowering parents, it fosters a sense of connection among self-representing litigants.
These resources can ease the journey, demonstrating that you are not alone in navigating family court.
Moving Forward
Ultimately, whether you need a solicitor for family court is a personal decision.
While legal expertise can sometimes be helpful, it’s not essential for success and often makes matters worse.
Self-representation provides an opportunity for individuals to take control, save money, and contribute to a more just legal system.
With supportive organisations like PAPA, self-advocacy becomes achievable and potentially transformative.
Trust in your right to speak for yourself—this is your opportunity to take action.
In need of help or support?
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This will give you access to our community support forum as well as our Resource Centre, which includes downloadable guides and on-demand courses to help through the process of being alienated and regaining contact with your children.
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Our Facebook support group has several dedicated chat rooms where you can get immediate support.
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We are currently prioritising PAPA Plus members due to high demand.
Regardless of circumstance you are not alone and at PAPA we are here to support you.
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