I was just after some advise really.
Quick details, I have a 8 and 13 year old with ex wife.
Few months back my 13 year old daughter suddenly decided she didnt want to come over any more (court order in place weekends, school holidays, indirect contact and I have parental responsibility)
Everything was fine up till this point between me and my eldest although about a week before she ran away from mums and called me in a mess as she didn't want to be at her mums anymore but they had fallen out as my daughter had misbehaved, I calmed her down made sure she was ok and took her back to my ex as she told me I had to. Then a week later that's it I've had no contact with my daughter, her mother has changed our daughters phone number and won't give it to me, she even told me that she will no longer discuss our daughter with me anymore so she won't even tell me how she is etc. I have set up a support worker at her school as there is alot more going on. Yesterday I find out from my daughters support worker from school that my daughter no longer goes to their school? First I have been told about this, emailed ex wife asking her to give me details about all this to which she hasn't replied.
I still have my youngest over like normal but even that situation is difficult with my ex as she's always changing contact and when I say we have plans made for the kids she turns it on me tells the kids it's my fault they can't do something with mum and tells kids horrible things like your missing out on fun at mums as you HAVE to go to dad's and they (wife and oldest daughter) will message my youngest this pretty much most weekends she is with me.
I know she has breached the order. She has several times and will continue too, we have been to court 3 times already and still no further on. I can't afford to go anymore.
Is there anything I can do and also can my ex just change our daughters school without any conversation with me. I honestly just wanted to make sure it's what my daughter wants and that she's OK.
Thanks