Hi! Today I found the words that have been lost for 7 years. Parental Alienation …. It now makes complete sense

Any tips on experiences greatly appreciated.

My kids live with me ... well my eldest has moved out with what I believe to be parental alienation syndrome (11 months ago)

My middle son is severely autistic so he's unaffected however has struggled with the brothers behaviour.

My youngest is detaching himself from me. He has been displaying signs for such a long time. He's 11. I have to get everything together quickly. I have 7 years of data.

Where do I start? My ex was diagnosed as sociopathic narcissist by clinical psych in mediation said to me. But he can not share his notes with anyone due to privacy.

My ex has told our kids that if I return to my home country to see my family or do anything without them that I'm abandoning the boys. This is just one thread of 100s of things he tells our boys.

I'm a dedicated mother and I've lost one son as fore mention. I'm determined to find the right help.

This wasn't picked up by cafcas or youth workers, schools etc. the abuse happens behind closed doors when they are with the other parent so it's not 'visable'.

Please help me. Any suggestions/goto legal help/child diagnostics in London? No idea.

Thank you and I'm so sorry to be here with you. But hopefully we will find light for our kids.