Hello,
I am a 42 year old male, an engineer and, most importantly, a father of two boys. I am also bipolar (also have ADHD with Autistic traits). My ex-wife left me during the height of my last manic episode and took our two sons. She used the kids as leverage in our divorce. I was alienated from my sons and from my own family.
I got lucky, though, I found a wonderful autistic woman on the internet. I am loving my role as step-dad to her three sons. We are looking forward to the day when my sons can meet hers. It's been two years since I've been allowed to talk with them without a therapist or my ex-wife presence. It's been hard, but life is pain; there is no easy way out.
I am happy that PAPA exists and am saddened that other people have experienced similar situations. I have hope that things will get better!
Rob