throughout my sons Entire life him mother would constantly drag me to court trying to change our 50/50 just to hurt me. When he became an adult he refused to see her as she truly would never talking about I was bad and he should obey her etc. on two or three different occasion I encourage him to see her as I do believe children should have both parents. He again won’t see her do I respect his decision or is it more Important for him to try again. He is a smart kid and he has told me she won’t stop talking about how I am bad. I’m conflicted but at the same time she’s cost me tons of money and ruined his childhood. He is very responsible and happy. He doesn’t want to but he’s respectanle and hard working (jdoes school and ft job. he is both of ours only child I feel bad for her even though she is the way she is 1. Should I encourage? 2. Or just stay out of it? I’m worried because he did not see her thanksgiving and now Xmas is around the corner